Dashing Dame

You are the model of the classy dame: independent, self-assured, and down-to-earth all rolled into one. Though you appreciate the finer things in life, you do not demand them from yourself and everyone around you. You can make light of an uncomfortable situation or contextualize it by not having unrealistic expectations. Because you treat others with much respect, you expect to be treated that way too. You know you deserve the best, but are one step above the rest: no one needs to tell you that the clothes don't make the woman. Being showered with gifts and wearing designer clothes may make you look like a diva, but your actions towards others is the real "taste" test. Neither a dilettante nor a diva, you are a social success in a league of your own.



Super-Sexy Siren

If you have a latin motto, it's Carpe Diem — you're no stranger at seizing the day when you see something you want. In fact, you're so good at acting on an opportunity when you see one that you live virtually without regret. Your friends admire your confidence and ability to act to further your interests, and are in awe of your social skills. When you see a person you are attracted to, you are confident enough to engage them in conversation, and when you're in a relationship and feel that you want to make a move, you are uninhibited. Your strong point is not worrying whether the person you're attracted to will rebuff your advances; you are confident enough in your own skin to not let it shatter your ego. Shy people envy your sexual assertiveness, and rightly so: you have tapped into the secret of sexiness, and unabashedly use it to suit your purposes. Continue believing in yourself, and you will have happy and healthy experiences, respecting yourself and your sexiness all the while.


Are you a Pessimist or an Optimist?

Part Full and Part Empty
While you are sometimes too pessimistic or too optmistic about the future, you're generally a happy amalgam of both...a realist. You don't assign blame heedlessly, and are open minded about the motivations of your friend, colleagues, and loved ones.You don't lack self-confidence, and your relationships with others are not strained because you know how to suss out a situation without accusing someone of something they haven't done.Your realistic attitude prevents you from jumping to pessimistic conclusions. By the same token, you do not presume that things will always work out to your benefit. You live by the motto that we tend to regret the things we didn't do in life, rather than those we did try but failed at. By keeping your mind open to new ideas, you enjoy a positive outlook on life without falling prey to excess pessimism or optimism.

"Life however, was yet in my possesion; with all its requirements, and pains, and responsibilities. The burden must be carried; the want provided for; the suffering endured; the responsibility fulfilled."

That is what I have, what I feel.

"It brought to life and light my whole nature: in his presence I throughly lived; and he lived in mine." (Jane Eyre)

And That is what I am looking for.